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Steeped in rich cultural significance, Desi weddings — traditional South Asian weddings held by individuals of Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi or Sri Lankan heritage — are filled with elaborate, multi-day celebrations, honouring the union of not only the bride and groom, but of their families as well.
Given the number of events involved, a typical Desi wedding can cost anywhere between $35,000 to $75,000 (or more). With lavish celebrations being the cultural norm, Neha Haider (you may know her as @ok_neha_ on Instagram and @ok_neha on TikTok) broke the mold without breaking the bank.
"We decided to take a different approach, opting for a more intimate and meaningful celebration," Neha explained. Instead of the usual extravagance associated with South Asian weddings, she and her husband chose to host a private ceremony at home.
"Our decision was influenced by several factors, including that we're both at the very beginning of our careers. We wanted to avoid the expense of a large wedding, and save those grander celebrations for a time when we're older, more financially stable, and better equipped to handle the stress of planning."
We chatted with Neha about her experience as a Desi bride, from finances to family to DIY decor. Read on to discover that yes, Wal-mart is a viable option for a manicure, and it is possible to tell your aunties that you're cutting the guest list.
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