Demand for lesbian-focused events strong in Edmonton
An organizer of a recent sold-out lesbian dance party says the unexpectedly strong demand suggests the need for more safe spaces for the queer community, even as dedicated spaces have historically struggled both in Edmonton and globally.
The Edmonton Lesbian Event Network (ELEN) released early-bird tickets for its pop-up event at 2am on a Saturday. Organizers said they were surprised when the event sold out later that morning.
"It was really exciting," co-organizer Sylvie Masson told Taproot. "It's refreshing in a way to know that so many people want community."
After the first tickets sold out, ELEN started a waitlist. "(W)e heartily apologize that we had no idea the demand would be so quick and intense on this and were not quite prepared," it posted on Facebook. New tickets opened up. Those, too, were quickly bought up.
In the end, about 100 people came to the March 9 event at Rhubarb Café and Cocktails, Masson said. "I'm delighted that there was so much interest, but I wish it wasn't such a rare occurrence for us to have these events," she said. "I would like it to be a normative thing, where you could just go out and have these safe spaces."
Masson said ELEN aims to be inclusive. The group tends to brand its events as "sapphic" rather than "lesbian," as the former word is more welcoming to queer people of all genders. "We allow trans folks on any side to come to our events because we find that there's not a lot of space for trans folks and I find a lot of spaces don't make room for that," she said.
"Our goal is always community, that's important — making those connections and providing a safe space to people."
Part of the ticket sales went to Skipping Stone and EGALE Canada's trans-affirming legal fund. EGALE describes policies proposed by the United Conservative Party in January regarding transgender health care, sexual education, and women's sports as unprecedented. "They go against every expert opinion, including medical professionals. If implemented, the policies would force medical and education professionals to take actions that they know will cause harm and suffering to the youth in their care," EGALE writes. The group says the legal fund will help it "bring legal action to challenge these assaults on our rights."
Masson said it can be difficult to be queer in Alberta right now. "Just existing at times, just being yourself and being open about your sexuality is taking a stand," she said. "Being here and being queer, myself, is an example of resistance."